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Dec 18, 2023
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EMOTIONAL & MENTAL HEALTH FOR WIDOWS

People may not understand why I celebrate the birthday of this man who will be forever 40, but I will keep doing it as long as I need to.

People may not understand why I bring you flowers, but I will continue to do so until I’ve paid back all the bouquets you bought me with interest!

People may not understand why I wear your favorite Bluesier pride blue and yellow, the sapphire earrings you bought me when we barely had two dimes to rub together sometimes, or wear a hat to celebrate you when you aren’t here to see and join in, but it makes me feel like I’m wrapped in a hug from you when I do it in your honor.

People may not understand why we continue to share your favorite Qdoba meal together or go bowling for your birthday, but never forgetting you is the only gift we can give you today.

People may not understand why we bring things to clean your plaque every time we visit, but it’s our way of protecting and caring for your forever home the way you a…

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